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Yo all my peeps, I'll be offline untill Sunday afternoon/evening.
and for my SCA Peeps I'm looking for someone(s) to share a room at Collegium. I have reserved a upper floor level room with 2 queen beds to share or cancel and bunk with someone in their room (have airbed will travel!). Let me know and I'll respond when I get back. - Later!
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Can we has Coronet yet? Please! :-)
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So who's going to the Rapier Tourney this weekend? I'm thinking about day tripping.
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Looks like I may not be going to Estrella after all. A really good friend of mine needs back surgery (again) and I hold his medical directive... So as much as I want to go, I know you'll all agree that it's more important that I'm there for the surgery that to play in Arizona.

The surgery hasn't been scheduled yet, but I've got a feeling in my gut that it'll end up being that weekend; so I'm holding off making travel plans.

I'll keep you posted - please keep good thought for my friend.

Gaybriel/Rich
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1. Where did you meet your mate?
Online - Yeah Yeah but it worked

2. What was the first thought that went through your head when you met?
"Oh my god he's so cute and so nervous"

3. Do you remember what he/she was wearing?
Jeans and a shirt

4. In what location did you kiss this person for the first time?
My livingroom

5. Where did you go for your first date?
Thai-rific for dinner, walked around downtown Mt. View, my place to watch Buffy, and then to the movies - Spiderman

6. How long did you know this person before you became a couple?
a week

7. How did he/she ask you out?
I asked him out

8. Do you and this person have kids together?
Three cats and a dog

9. Have you ever broken the law with this person?
Oh Yeah - in multiple states

10. When was the first time you realized that you liked this person?
Before we even met in person

11. Do you get along with his/her family?
Very well

12. Do you trust this person?
Absolutely

13. Do you see her/him as your partner in your future?
For the rest of my life (or his;-) )

14. What is the best gift she/he has given you?
His patience with me

15. What is one thing he/she does that gets on your nerves?
Talks though TV show that I like and he couldn't care less about

16. Where do you see yourselves 15 years from now?
Him a successful attorney and me retired

17. What causes you to argue the most?
when we both think we're right

18. How long have you been together?
6 1/2 years

19. Are you married?
Yes!
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Legal Groups File Lawsuit Challenging Proposition 8, Should it Pass
Legal Papers Claim Initiative Procedure Cannot Be Used To Undermine the Constitution’s Core Commitment To Equality For Everyone

SAN FRANCISCO – The American Civil Liberties Union, Lambda Legal and the National Center for Lesbian Rights filed a writ petition before the California Supreme Court today urging the court to invalidate Proposition 8 if it passes. The petition charges that Proposition 8 is invalid because the initiative process was improperly used in an attempt to undo the constitution’s core commitment to equality for everyone by eliminating a fundamental right from just one group – lesbian and gay Californians. Proposition 8 also improperly attempts to prevent the courts from exercising their essential constitutional role of protecting the equal protection rights of minorities. According to the California Constitution, such radical changes to the organizing principles of state government cannot be made by simple majority vote through the initiative process, but instead must, at a minimum, go through the state legislature first.

The California Constitution itself sets out two ways to alter the document that sets the most basic rules about how state government works. Through the initiative process, voters can make relatively small changes to the constitution. But any measure that would change the underlying principles of the constitution must first be approved by the legislature before being submitted to the voters. That didn’t happen with Proposition 8, and that’s why it’s invalid.

“If the voters approved an initiative that took the right to free speech away from women, but not from men, everyone would agree that such a measure conflicts with the basic ideals of equality enshrined in our constitution. Proposition 8 suffers from the same flaw – it removes a protected constitutional right – here, the right to marry – not from all Californians, but just from one group of us,” said Jenny Pizer, a staff attorney with Lambda Legal. “That’s too big a change in the principles of our constitution to be made just by a bare majority of voters.”

“A major purpose of the constitution is to protect minorities from majorities. Because changing that principle is a fundamental change to the organizing principles of the constitution itself, only the legislature can initiate such revisions to the constitution,” added Elizabeth Gill, a staff attorney with the ACLU of Northern California.

The lawsuit was filed today in the California Supreme Court on behalf of Equality California and 6 same-sex couples who did not marry before Tuesday’s election but would like to be able to marry now.

The groups filed a writ petition in the California Supreme Court before the elections presenting similar arguments because they believed the initiative should not have appeared on the ballot, but the court dismissed that petition without addressing its merits. That earlier order is not precedent here.

“Historically, courts are reluctant to get involved in disputes if they can avoid doing so,” said Shannon Minter, Legal Director of NCLR. “It is not uncommon for the court to wait to see what happens at the polls before considering these legal arguments. However, now that Prop 8 may pass, the courts will have to weigh in and we believe they will agree that Prop 8 should never have been on the ballot in the first place.”

This would not be the first time the court has struck down an improper voter initiative. In 1990, the court stuck down an initiative that would have added a provision to the California Constitution stating that the “Constitution shall not be construed by the courts to afford greater rights to criminal defendants than those afforded by the Constitution of the United States.” That measure was invalid because it improperly attempted to strip California’s courts of their role as independent interpreters of the state’s constitution.

In a statement issued earlier today, the groups stated their conviction, which is shared by the California Attorney General, that the state will continue to honor the marriages of the 18,000 lesbian and gay couples who have already married in California. A copy of the statement as well as the writ petition filed today is available a www.aclu.org/lgbt, www.lambdalegal.org, and www.nclrights.org.

In addition to the ACLU, Lambda Legal and NCLR, the legal team bringing the writ also includes the Law Office of David C. Codell; Munger Tolles & Olson, LLP; and Orrick, Herrington & Sutcliffe, LLP.

The National Center for Lesbian Rights is a national legal organization committed to advancing the civil and human rights of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people and their families through litigation, public policy advocacy, and public education. www.nclrights.org

Lambda Legal is a national organization committed to achieving full recognition of the civil rights of lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender people and those with HIV through impact litigation, education and public policy work. www.lambdalegal.org

The American Civil Liberties Union is America’s foremost advocate of individual rights. It fights discrimination and moves public opinion on LGBT rights through the courts, legislatures and public education. www.aclu.org

Founded in 1998, Equality California celebrates its 10th anniversary in 2008, commemorating a decade of building a state of equality in California. EQCA is a nonprofit, nonpartisan, grassroots-based, statewide advocacy organization whose mission is to achieve equality and civil rights of all lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) Californians. www.eqca.org
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There's not much to say that hasn't already been said. I'm disheartend that CA would vote discrimination into our constitution. I angry that I'm of the group being discriminated against. I'm nervous that they'll find away to void my marrige.

I am also proud of all of you and thankfull for all of your support on this issue. I was asked this morning if by knowing that this horid amendment would pass and "they" would be working to take away my rights, would I have done anything different (she was referring to being the first in the county and the marrige being so public) I answered "absolutely not."

So the fight is not over and there's still a slim chance that we'll defeat it. I'm hopeful, but not holding my breath.

Again, from the bottom of my heart, thank you all for your love and support. I'm a lucky man to have you in my life.

Rich/Gaybriel
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Slight improvement - Hoping

I really do want to thank everyone for your positive feedback and well wishes regardless how the vote turns out. You all are the best!!
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OK - so I'm very happy with Obama (still would have prefered Hilary). David and I are still very concerned about Prop 8. right now California is at 55% for it (hiss) and 45% against; but only 14% of precints have reported, so it's not over yet.

The reporters will be calling as soon as it's called. Let me know if there are and opinions that you'll would like me to present to them. :-)

Update 24 % in and it's 54% for 8 anf 46 against - so that's a move in the right direction. Fingers still crossed..
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So here I sit waiting for the returns to come in (I know I have about four hours left to wait). My thoughts today have been constantly drifting back to the election and specifically Prop 8. David is at school but will be home by the time the results start coming in. I'm glad we'll be together when we hear the news. Even more glad because I just got a call from a reporter wanting to know if he could call us tonight to get our reaction - either way the vote goes.

I will report that the employee that I had to "sit down" today took it well and I'm hopeful that issues will be corrected and we can just move forward. It was nerve wracking as I haven't had to wear the "HR" hat in a very long time.

So keep good thoughts and pray to whatever helps you that the state collectively makes the correct decision on such an important issue.
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